A few days ago an old lady died. The community has been at the home visiting the body, mourning her death. We went and visited the home so experience the traditions of Giriama funerals. When we got there, we were taken to the place where they were going to bury her. There were men digging the burial grave, all taking turns so they dont get overly tired. I decided I wanted to help, so I offered to help dig. They were more than welcoming for me to jump in and start digging away at the hole that was already about 5 feet deep. I first had to take my shoes off. I then jumped in the hole and used a hoe to chop up the dirt. Everyone was starring at me, but I didnt really mind. I only did it for about 5-10 minutes but I still got a blister on my hand!
When I was done they had me wash off my feet and legs explaining that it was a cultural ideal. I dont no if they have ever had a foreigner help dig a grave before me. If they have I am sure they havent had many. Afterwards I had to give a donation for the family. They said it was out of respect for the family. They wanted 400ksh, but I only had 60ksh so I just gave them what I had.
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